originally posted on mon


hi. CTs over! woots! i felt a tad happier todae when i spoke to madalene and kaiting abt how i felt towards this class..


i spoke to them, abt how our class appears to be bonded, but in fact, we arent close at all because we are too scattered. this made me think.. how do i actualli define "bonded"? does "bonded" constitute being close? the ans is no.. a class isnt necessarily close when it is bonded, but it is defnitely bonded when the people are close.


so in this case, our class IS bonded, but NOT close. being bonded means having a class spirit, and that the people do things together as one, displaying a teamspirit. and being close means that there's a certain trust among the people, which allow them to be the most truthful self in front of the others and confide in one another when they are down. to me, it is not easy to find someone who can be realli close to ourselves and tt they feel the same way too. if we do, we are considered very fortunate. although our class displays unity, the closeness still doesnt exist. or perhaps with such a big a group of us, time is the only thing tt we need to develop the closeness. and being bonded is the very first step.. :)


happiness.. here i come.

saw a little kittie at mi hs downstairs just now.. and it's so adorable, tiny and helpless! wish i cld bring it home..